Is It Normal For Survivors to Experience Lapses in Memory in Their Daily Lives?

By Jon K. Uhler, LPC -


In my work with Survivors, they are often surprised when I ask them about memory lapse, as they rarely tell anyone about their struggles with "forgetting", lest they be viewed as not being able to keep it all together.

 For those who do experience gaps in daily memory, or for those married to someone who is a Survivor who seems to lose track of time and things, the following will help. Go to the post. For the full list, visit SurvivorSupport.net 
Jon K. Uhler, LPC, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Certified Sex Offender Treatment Provider

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