What Are The Long-term Effects of Associating With a Sociopath?

By Jon K. Uhler, LPC -



In my trainings on understanding the minds of manipulators and Predators, one of the questions inevitable asked is how one is to put limits on a problematic person, if they simply just ignore your limits or boundaries?

 That is an important question, which actually reveals a lot about what the person lived with in their family of origin.  Though there certainly are answers to that questions, sometimes it's better to help the person understand why they are having a difficult time establishing proper/effective boundaries.

 In the following, I share some of the most common effects living in with someone who is profoundly selfish.  https://qr.ae/TWIOHp
Jon K. Uhler, LPC, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Certified Sex Offender Treatment Provider

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